Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Judy Fike Speaks

Judy is Jeff Beitzel's sister
November 2, 2008 2:22 PM
Judy Fike said...

I would like to thank Tournament Drive Neighbor for your insight. Without elaborating on the saga of the ex's, I would like to verify a few facts. Jeff's choice to go to the City of Hope for treatment was not based on the persuasion powers of Gretchen -- he was actually smarter than that! He decided to go to LA for treatment only after several agonizing days of phone calls & consultations with various doctors from UM, City of Hope & others only because they were the only doctors who offered him any glimmer of hope through treatment. He didn't want his children or others to know he had been given only a 15% survival rate & his decision was to go with the only doctor who offered him any chance at all. He knew the hardship it would place on his family, but ultimately was grasping at the only straw offered. Suffice it to say that his children were his main priority & while making hospital preparations, he also updated his will & all financial assets to make sure his children & family were taken care of. The Gretchen fiasco has obviously mushroomed due to her attempt at fame, but her importance in his family's life has not changed -- I only met her once at his funeral & although I keep in touch with other ex's, she's definitely not in their category or our future.

November 2, 2008 6:29 PM
Tournament Drive Neighbor said...

Judy thanks for the insight. I am glad you were able to clarify some facts. I would have been interested to see what you would have thought of Gretchen if you got to know her. I am surprised that there is very little sympathy or defending when it comes to her. I know wife #2/#5...I am disappointed that Jeff gave up the love of his life for that whore. I stood by wife #2/#5 when Gretchen made such a scene at St.Mary's. Wife #2/#5 loved him with all of her heart, she left so it would be easier on Jeff. I hope Jeff knew how much she cared and the pain that she felt then and her loneliness at times now. He had such a long history with her and GRETCHEN knew the facts but was not willing to leave it alone. Judy don't know how well you know that wife, but thought you'd like to know

November 3, 2008 5:21
Anonymous said...

Gretchen is in this for 15 minutes of fame. Gretchen and her girlfriends (roommate, Rocio) are both gold diggers. They want instant fame and would do anything to get it. You watch and see!

November 3, 2008 6:19 PM
Anonymous said...

Well, I hope that is all she gets; 15 minutes (she doesn't even deserve that). I know the "friend" mentioned above, and she is just like Gretchen. She seeks out and lives off of old men with money. She's older than Gretchen and I'm sure she taught her how to work the old men. Basically they are both just prositutes.

November 3, 2008 7:15 PM
Tournament Drive Neighbor said...

I am wondering since Jeff is gone has Gretchen moved on? I heard she was trying to hook up with SLade? He isn't as old as Jeff but has the same cash! Anybody else here this?

November 4, 2008 8:50 AM
Anonymous said...

I heard she was back with that Photoglou guy. The one she was dirty dancing with back in June. That poor sap is blinded by her smoking hot beauty and believes her lies. He thinks Jeffrey just hired her as his nurse and there was no hanky-panky involved. You really believe a man on his deathbed would shun his wives and family for a smoking hot employee and a TV show? I don't.

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3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Tamra is a horrible bitch

Anonymous said...

I couldn't agree with you more. Tamra has shown her scheming evil side in trying to make Gretchen look bad. Why is it women don't understand that those kinds of tactics always backfire? Those are the kinds of things you see in high school, for pete's sake! Where is this woman's maturity? It is very obvious why she continues to try to darken Gretchen's reputation. She oozes jealousy. If you compare their pictures side by side you'll see that Tamra is way past her prime--plastic surgery or not. And that is the real reason for her nastiness. I was shocked to see a close up of her. It's obvious the Botox isn't doing the job anymore. She should take a page from Jeana's book and learn to be a bit more gracious. Those etiquette lessons were a waste of time! Like that old saying about putting lipstick on a pig--it's still a pig--and that is Tamra.

Anonymous said...

You can't make a whore a housewife.